Thursday, August 7, 2014

A Long Goodbye

What a crazy couple of weeks!
So much has happened,
it's hard to believe it all happened in
such a short amount of time.
Let's recap.

First of all,
check out Ellory in her dress
for her first day at church.
Cray-cray ADORBS.



The last few weeks we were
in Ellensburg were
HOT.

We went to the little
lake in town with the 
Smith family.
Kale and O'neil enjoyed throwing
rocks together.
I didn't get a picture, though.
My bad.
Later than night we chilled
at the Smith's house
and had dinner with the missionaries.
Ellory loved Lily:


And Kale chased a bunny:



We went to the water park in Moses Lake
with Kristen and Bauston and Stephanie.
That was really really fun.
Kale loved it.
He still is asking if we
can go to the waterpark.
Earlier in the week when we went
to the lake we had gotten
one of  those half tents
so we could keep Ellory in the shade.
It worked well at Moses Lake too





Even poor Ellory was hot.
Kale needed something
so I just set Ellory down for a second
to help him out.
When I came back to pick her up
she was like this:


Kale loves Ellory.
And it's adorable.




The week before I moved
we had a Girls Night Out.
Rachel asked me what my favorite
desserts were, and then she
and Emily Hall teamed up to make them.
I am SOOOOO spoiled.
Can you believe the great friends I have???

First up:

That's right,
there's nothing like some
delicious cookie dough
to satisfy my sweet tooth.
And, although it wasn't the 
smartest thing,
I ate it all...


Next up:

I love me some oreos,
especially double-stuf.
But I never expected something
as delicious as this here cupcake.
I have no words.
They were AMAZING.

The whole night was really fun.
It was nice to hang out with
these awesome ladies one 
last time.
If any of you ever move to Ellensburg,
know you'll be in good hands.

On our last Friday in town we 
went to our ward campout at Ensign Ranch.
The only catch was that
the campout was cancelled.
We went anyway and so did a few
other families in the ward.
We had a BLAST.
I love this picture because
Blake (the boy in the tube)
was freaking out because he couldn't
get back to shore
and Rachel was showing him the motion
he needed to make with his arms and 
hands. 
That's motherhood, looking silly and
not giving a crap who sees 
because it's what your kids need.
Rachel is a great mom.

There was a rope swing at  Ensign Ranch
and I was constantly telling Kale
he needed to stay back 
so he didn't fall off the platform.
I said it so many times that O'neil
decided I needed some help:

O'neil looks naked, 
but I'm 90 percent sure he's not.

Rope swings are always fun.
Always

Corigan did awesome on the 
rope swing and even
managed to strike a sweet pose.

Why so serious, Kale?

Sometimes it still blows my mind that 
I have TWO kids..,

Kale took the following picture.
I guess he didn't want me in it.

Did you see the bassinet in the 
background?
That's right, I had a whole setup.
The bassinet was on my side of 
the air mattress along with
a camping chair and my laptop.
That night Ellory slept the best 
she had in her whole life.
She only woke up to eat 3 times and each time 
she just went right back to sleep.
It was wonderful and
I was so proud of her!

In the morning we headed for the 
slip'n'slide!
Last year Tyler didn't get to participate,
so this year it was all him.


There were a few moments
where Tyler had to take care of
other things,
so Corigan was nice enough
to take Kale down for us.
What a good kid!


Kale was NOT happy when 
we had to leave.

Our last Sunday in town
was Ellory's baby blessing day!
It was wonderful, and even more 
wonderful that my parents could
be there for it.
Ellory looked so cute in her blessing 
dress, which happens to be 
the same dress I was blessed in.
Isn't that cool!
I think it's super cool.



I'm so glad my parents were able to come
out and help us pack, clean,
and, most importantly,
keep Kale entertained.
A move is hard to explain to a 2 year-old,
especially when he's already
adjusting to a lack of attention
due to a little sister.



On our last Monday in town,
(do you like how I keep saying that?)
we hiked Manashtash Ridge with
Rachel, Aaron, Mindyn and Brian.
It was brutal.
Let's remember that at this point
it hadn't quite been 6 weeks since Ellory was born.
And, the last time I exercised was in........
November.
This hike was only 2 miles but
it was STEEP. 
Aaron kept us laughing the whole
way.


Brian and Mindyn brought their baby,
They were crazy.
I think I would have died carrying
that baby up that ridge.

But we made it!
It was so hot,
and we were all so sweaty
and tired
(except for Rachel and Tyler).
I mean, they were stinky and sweaty,
just not as tired as the rest of us.

Tyler got to the top before
the rest of us.



And he apparently decided
to take a picture of
us taking a selfie...
I love it.





Tyler got so far ahead of us
on the way down
he got bored and climbed a tree
and watched us go past.
Then he took a picture
from behind.
Creeper.



Look how cool I am.



On our last Tuesday in town,
Kristen and Bauston came over to play.
Kale and Bauston 
had fun playing water guns
and running in the sprinkler.




We miss them so much already!!!
Kristen is just the greatest
person and friend.
I'm so happy I got to be a part of her
life during such a huge
part of it!
Seeing her get married in the temple
was wonderful,
and she became someone
I could really relate to and talk with.
We'll be friends forever :)
And maybe Bauston and Kale will be, too!
 

My parents arrived on Saturday,
but I apparently didn't start taking pictures
until Tuesday.
My dad was so cute with Ellory,
and couldn't wait to hold her.
Look at those good snugs!

This is the new game Kale and Grandpa 
love to play together:

Tuesday night we met up with
Stephanie at Winegars (a GREAT ice cream place)
for Dollar Scoop Night.
The place was hopping so we
to our ice creams to
Stephanie's house
where Kale charmed the pants
off of everyone there.



We love Stephanie.
We didn't know her long,
but what an awesome person.
We joked about her coming to Utah
to visit,
but I hope she really does!

On our last Wednesday in town,
we went to hang at the Smiths house 
for a little bit and say goodbye.
That was hard.
I never imagined we'd make 
such great friends in 
our short time in Ellensburg,
but we really did. 
Rachel and Aaron are great people
and the best friends.
We had a ton of fun with them
and their kids.
I miss them a lot.
Especially Rachel (no offense to Aaron).
I'll admit I cried when we said 
goodbye.
It's hard not to cry just writing this.
Goodbyes are hard,
especially when you don't know when
you'll see each other again.
I'm glad we at least got to see
them one last time
and say our goodbyes.
Lily was so cute with Ellory,
I'm glad I had my camera with me!

Kale obviously didn't understand
what moving meant 
regarding not seeing his friends anymore.
But, when we left he gave O'neil 
a big hug and said goodbye.
It was great.

Nana was SO happy to be holding
Ellory again.
And Ellory was happy too.
She loves Nana!

And then it was time to move.
We packed up all our stuff in a Uhaul 
and headed out.
Tyler and my dad drove the Uhaul,
My mom and I drove the 
car with the little ones.
That was quite the adventure.
We drove to Boise on Thursday 
and stayed the night in 
a hotel and made the rest of the trip
on Friday.
Thursday was....interesting.
My mom and I ended up making 5 stops.
2 of those stops were to feed 
Ellory.
One was a bathroom stop.
One was an emergency side of the road
stop so Kale could poop.
One was an emergency side of the road
stop so I could climb in the back
and sit between the two car seats
and calm Ellory down.
I sat back there for the last 100 miles to Boise.
Our car isn't exactly spacious.
My butt hurt by the end.
Dad and Tyler beat us to the hotel.
It was about 9:30 by the time we got there
and Kale was WIRED.
So, we took him to the hotel pool to tire him out.
It kinda worked.
Friday was a bit better. 
Mom drove most of the way
so I could handle the kids,
and because I was so tired!

We stopped in Ogden at my 
grandma's house so my mom
could pick up her car.
We were able to convince Grandma
to come to Orem with us
and stay the night with us.
I'm so glad, because I love my 
Grandma and I wanted her to spend 
some time with all of us!
She is the sweetest lady
and was so cute with little Ellory.

Grandma has a bag of blocks at her 
house that Kale loves to play with.
He remembered exactly where they 
were.
The kid is too smart for his own good.

Dad and Tyler beat us to our 
new apartment.
In fact,
by the time we got there it 
was completely unloaded.
We had so many people show up
to help!!
All except a couple of Kale's cousins
were there and they
were so excited to see Kale.
I loved it.
And then, Grandpa Pat got them
all popsicles.
Cousin love!

My parents and my grandma went
to the Ogden Temple Open House
on Saturday while
Tyler and I went to his cousin's baptism.
Before they left we had to
get a picture of 4 generations
of women!
(Pardon my frumpyness)



It was really sad when my parents
had to leave.
So much had happened
it seemed like they hadn't
been with us long at all.
It's hard having them live so far
away.
I'm grateful for Skype,
because Kale knows his Gerber grandparents
and recognizes them right away
since we Skype so often.
The same will go for Ellory!
This move was so much easier
because of their help.
I love them!

So I probably haven't mentioned
yet that our new place
is just up the street from Tyler's
sister Laura and his Mom!
It's so crazy to go from
no family even close to tons
of family everywhere.
I'm pretty sure Grandma Pam is just
over the moon,
and so are we!
She came and walked with us to the nearby
park so that Kale would have a playmate.
There's a cute duck pond
and Tyler snatched this even
cuter picture of Pam and Kale.


What a great Grandma she is!
Kale loves her to death
and never wants to leave when he's with
her.

There was more that happened.
We went to eat at P.F. Changs and
my cousins Kristen and Trent
came with their spouses
Cory and Nicole.
Kyle and Heather came too
but they sat at the far end
of the table so we didn't get to
socialize with them.
Dinner was fun!
I LOVE my cousins.
They are a riot and I can't wait
for some Grandma dinners!!!!!!!!

We love our new place.
It's a basement apartment
with way more space and
actual CARPET.
Also, the kitchen is gorgeous
and there's a dishwasher.
Also, it's beautiful.

PHEW! That's about it.

We've had a few outings this past
week and I actually have
taken some pictures,
so, another post to come
relatively soon!

Thanks to everyone who helped
us move and to everyone
in Ellensburg who
took us in and helped make
our time there wonderful.

Friday, July 11, 2014

Happy Birthday Elder Gerber!

Happy Birthday to my 
favorite missionary!!
We love Dain 
and are so proud of him!


Sunday, June 29, 2014

Ellory Joan

Wow what an amazing couple
of weeks!!
First up, I need to say
congratulations to Tyler
for graduating from his Masters program!!
Unfortunately I was sick 
with the flu on the day
of his graduation ceremony, 
so I didn't get to see him
walk.
But, we thankfully still have pictures!!


It has been so fun getting
to know the people
in Tyler's program.
They are a silly bunch, 
and they've made these
last 2 years more
enjoyable for Tyler,
I think.
 

Tyler has told me over and over
how glad he was that Dr. D. 
was his Chair for his
thesis project.
Therefore, I am super grateful to him
for helping Tyler so much.
 

One more shot of the 
Graduates!!
(Plus Stephanie)

Alright,
as if that wasn't big enough news,
another giant thing
happened in the last week...
My mom came to stay!!
I started having some small
contractions on Sunday June 15th,
and I was just sure that
the baby was coming 
soon.
Called my doctor and she told me to
go into the hospital and have
them check me and stuff.
Downside was, Tyler had caught
the flu that I'd had the day
before.
Not ideal for baby birthing time.
She must have known because
the nurses said things
weren't progressed enough
and come back later.
Poo.
Well, my mom flew in
the next day!
And we went back to the hospital
that same day.
And then we went back home.
Poo poo.
But then I got to spend the 
next few days
hanging out with my mom
while Tyler worked football camp.
It was really great to get
to spend some time
with just her and me and Kale.

We took Kale to the library...


And to what is known to us as
The Pirate Park.
Nana was so great to
play with Kale!
 

We let Kale take a picture of us.
Not too shabby.
 

And Nana showed us how
to make banana chocolate chip cookies!
SO. GOOD.
 

And then it was time to have
a baby.
Everything went really well.
My doctor broke my water
at about 6:15 PM
and my contractions
didn't take long to get stronger
and closer together.
So, it was epidural time!
The epidural was, once again,
so lovely.
It was a little different this time, though.
I could still move my legs
and feel pressure,
just no pain.
It was awesome.
And then,
at 12:24 AM on June 20th, 2014,
Ellory Joan Patterson
was born! 
She was 6 lbs 7 oz and 19 inches.
Just perfect.


She was really cold when she 
was first born so I
held her for a while skin to skin
to warm her up.
She was making the cutest little 
pouty face the whole time.

And then it was time to
hang out and
rest.


 
 
Look at my handsome 
guy with his little girl.
I mean, he's already super good looking,
but throw in an adorable 
baby in his arms
and he gets even
more handsome!


              


 Kale has been so cute
with Ellory.
He learned her name right away
and also loves to
call her 
"My little sister."
He's very protective of her.
If she's crying he runs
over and says,
"Is something wrong with my little sister?"
in a very concerned voice.
He's obviously had some
behavior issues
adjusting to the lack of
attention he's now receiving.
But I'd say he's doing pretty great for 
a 2 year-old.



I was unbelievable grateful
that my mom could
be here when Ellory was born.
It was wonderful that she
could just be at home with Kale.
It was wonderful to have her
helping around the house in 
general.
And it was wonderful to
see the look on
her face when she got
to hold Ellory
when she was less than a day old.


We had some visitors
at the hospital,
which was so sweet of them!
Kristen DeBock stopped by
and brought me 
french fries from the Palace.
Yum!
And she held Ellory for FOREVER.
It was great :)
Also, my visiting teachers each
stopped by and brought
Ellory adorable little 
gifts.
Thanks Emily Hall and Valerie Calaway!
And our friend Stephanie dropped
by as well, also with a gift.
We are friends with the best people.
Seriously.

And then,
it was time to take her home...
 

 


Kale wanted to hold her,
which was adorable.
Obviously.
But then he suddenly didn't want to
hold her anymore.
Nana caught her.
It's all good.
 

Look how cute and little she is!!
 
 


The following is another picture
taken by Kale:


Check out those 
GOLD pants.
This was the day we took
her to her first doctors appointment.
It's also the first time
she had a blow out diaper
in a public setting.
Gotta love all those
firsts that are coming!
 

Brother and Sister!!!
 

She's a little small right now. 
But we make things work.
 

We went for a walk
and stopped at the store so
Nana could get Kale a
treat.
He picked a little juice.
And then we stopped about every 
5 feet so he could take a drink.
 


Look at my adorable 
family,
sleeping on the couch.
 

Just me and my little girl :)


Look how cute those P.J.'s are!




Kale got to help feed her 
but he was trying to watch TV too..

 

Kale and I sat outside and read books
while Tyler held Ellory.
It was great :)
 

We had a super hot day so Kale played in
the sprinkler and Ellory and I
sat in the shade.
She loved the heat!
 


And that's about it!
My mom went home
early Saturday morning,
and we were sad to see her go.
Kale has asked multiple times
since she left 
where she is. 
It's so great how much he loves her!
Mom was such a HUGE help
and I just can't thank
her enough for everything.
She'll be back soon to help
us move though,
and this time she'll bring
grandpa with her!

Well, it's hard to believe
this is my new reality.
I have TWO children.
Two.
I still don't feel old enough 
(and by old enough, I mean mature enough)
to be a mother,
let alone a mother of 2.
But I wouldn't have it
any other way.
Let the new adventure
continue!